As a teenager and young woman in my twenties, my nickname was “mom.” People always told me I would get married young and have a traditional life, and that’s what I wanted. To meet my man, settle down, raise a family. The typical “American Dream”, I suppose.
As my twenties stretched into my thirties and I still found myself single, I got depressed and angry. I dated some and had some short-term relationships with men who just weren’t right for me. I tended to attract the bad boy types, the guys who were noncommittal and emotionally unavailable. I thought it was just because I was a nice girl and that’s what they secretly liked. I always blamed them when the relationships didn’t work out, chalking it up to men just being jerks.
At the age of 35, I decided enough was enough and I was going to conquer this dating thing if it was the last thing I did. I began reading all kinds of dating tip books and listening to dating “experts”. I joined a couple of online dating sites and dated and dated and dated. In all, I probably went on close to 100 dates. I practiced what the “experts” told me, but to no avail. Their advice only left me feeling like the real me wasn’t good enough. It left me confused and conflicted. And I was still single. And getting more bitter with every unsuccessful date.
One day I had an epiphany: I was the only common denominator in these stories. This whole time I had been blaming the male species and not taking ownership of my part in all of this.
It was through my own struggle that I found the work of Debi Berndt and Dr. Robert Maldonado, who teach about Creative Love™. I became a client of theirs and saw areas in my life where I had been stuck fully transform because I saw the root of the patterns. I realized that my singlehood existed for so many more reasons than I had ever thought.
My dating life has completely changed. There is a looseness about it that never existed for me before. I see men as beautiful and honorable and have full belief in love again. In fact, it goes beyond love. I carry myself completely differently now, different from the inside out.
I knew I wanted to do this for others–wanted them to feel the glow and freedom that I feel–and became a certified coach.
Breakthrough comes through a deeper understanding of ourselves, our unconscious mind, and the role we play in creating our lives. My health, life, and career have fully transformed and I am so grateful that I get to share this powerful feeling with others.
In addition, I have a bachelors degree in Psychology and Social Behavior and extensive experience as a classroom teacher. My fourteen years of experience as a teacher have not only equipped me with the skills to deliver information in an understandable, easy-to-apply way, but also has gifted me with the skills to be a supportive mentor who has a deep understanding of human nature.
Sending Love, Heather Temple
Certified Holistic Health Coach
Certified Functional Diagnostic Nutrition™ Practitioner
Certified Creative Love™ Coach
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